I am currently dealing with a very narcissistic city where I live. I have been here for going on 12 years and nothing has ever changed except me relocating to different towns (all in Rochester, NY) in attempt to live a better life and have a realer experience. I have no friends, they all are drug addicts or have mental conditions, the average person acts malevolent and abusive. This place is isolated from reality and the world and they brainwash each other to make themselves feel superior to people who are actually acceptable, loving and kind. They drag and leave you with their weight and baggage and will never say or show any respect or courtesy not even to animals. Living here I have mastered the art of living independent and surviving off my own creativity because that is the only way I can feel alive while being gaslighted, harassed and stalked. This is the land of dairy farms, corn fields, and 1950’s Diners. It’s like living in a time capsule from 1950-1990. Kodak used to be huge and they went out of business and the whole city still can’t move on. I have plans to make it out of here, I know I will. I naturally attract narcissists based off my INFJ personality type. It’s happened everywhere I’ve lived. Everyday I’m doing better, keeping distance and figuring out ways to get out of here. I would like somewhere that doesn’t have so much self hatred and insecurity. I want to move to Guanacasta, Costa Rica where the weather is sunny and people are more friendly. This place can’t smile on their best day. I am working on my affirmations and manifestations to speed up the process. Please wish me luck, thanks.