I feel like the best solution to getting away and dealing with a toxic narcissist is to just go cold turkey and ghost them, just completely leave and cut them off from your time and energy! Even when time passes, you get better but the narcissist thinks you will believe they have changed (which is childish and immature) and that it‘s your problem why you left them (who cares!). Every time I moved away or ghosted a narcissist I don’t have to deal with them and I can live my life!

I’ve been experimenting with different herbs and spices that will help me attract positivity, success and other things. Here is my concoction that I keep in a ziplock bag in my pocket: Bilva leaves - absorbs negativity and helps calm your environment. It definitely works with driving and at work dealing with toxicity, it takes away their anger lol Salt - clears negative spirits away. This is very helpful with disarming a narcissist Mint - Helps attract money and love Cinnamon - Attracts health, wealth and love Nutmeg - Attracts health, rids of sickness Rosemary - attracts wealth and friendship Basil - helps attract wealth, love and success Oregano - helps attract health, love and wealth Almonds - attract money and good luck I keep this is my pocket everyday, it gives me an extra vibe because there is no vibe where I live. I am the vibe here and they want to ruin it lol. But this helps keep the energy going while attracting opportunity and creating positive vibes.

I have been dealing with narcissists my whole life but I never knew they had a classification where I could understand them better. Before my learning of what a narcissist is, I thought the whole world was wrong. Basically because I was dealing with that much narcissism. Finally 20 years later after my first real traumatizing experience I am able to identify a narcissist from the rest of the world. I know what they do and want and I can have more control over my life. Still the things they did to me had me believing I was crazy, sick, delusional, weak and scared when I never felt that way. They work together to put pressure on your reality to make it seem like people are in control of your perspective not you. I find myself getting stressed whenever a narc wants to annoy me. I have made a great effort into changing my habits to not focus on them and to literally just be assertive and create a change. They know how to trigger people easily, but I know I have way more control than them. its not worth debating or pleasing them, they won’t appreciate either. I’m just glad I know what I am dealing with instead of having no faith in humanity.